Some films are so profoundly stirring that no words can adequately articulate them—they are simply rare gems.
Some movies have a rich narrative that underpins the depth of emotion in the film; its interwoven into the screenplay and nothing needs to be added.
Then there are those features where the actors bring such passion and talent to the work that their performance matches or surpasses what is written in the screenplay. But when a film possesses both elements, it leaves one speechless. This is the remarkable quality of “It Ends With Us.”
Sorrowful Beginnings
The story of “It Ends With Us” opens with sorrow—immediately, one can tell it is a tale steeped in suffering. This event of misfortune somehow leads to a connection—not the kind forged in love but one rooted in a shared understanding, unspoken and innate. It is a bond forged by suffering. These are the building blocks, the foundation for what seems like a pair of star-crossed lovers.
They cross paths unexpectedly, and in that crossing, they recognize each other, finding solace in a kindred spirit. However, as in most cases, their chance meeting also brings tremendous tension, served with a side of forbidden desire.
As the narrative proceeds, the two ships passing through the night continue on their respective paths. But call it serendipitous or fated folly, wayward wandering souls reconnect.
Twisted Thorns And Nourished Pain

He (Ryle) is determined in his pursuit, while she (Lily) cautiously entertains the idea. She hopes for something new and different from what she’s always known.
At its heart, It Ends With Us takes viewers into the abyss of nourished pain and agony. This is pain, homegrown and fattened by the gluttonous growth of unchecked trauma. A misery fed to the point that it grows its own blossoms, transplanting its poisoned soil.
This type of anguish is resonant, especially with those who have endured similar suffering. The director adeptly captures the complexities of acknowledging one’s past in the present and attempting to break away from it, only to be pulled back in.
Blooming Truths
The film’s exploration of trauma bonding is both profound and validating, making it a must-watch for those experiencing similar struggles.
Symbolism runs deep in this film, from the protagonist’s name, Lily, to the flower’s significance. Research shows the lily holds great meaning. ” It embodies femininity, love, purity, and grief, making it a fitting choice for friendship bouquets filled with joy at weddings or somber occasions like funerals.” And fitting for a character such as the protagonist.
Bitter Petals: Fragility of Connections

Amidst the unfolding narrative, there are countless allusions to horticulture and flora’s enchantment. Similar to human connections, these delicate blooms have an expiration date and may deteriorate rapidly once harvested. And yet, one must still tend to them dutifully despite the awareness of their inevitable demise.
Our protagonist, intimately familiar with this harsh truth, clings to her dream of owning a flower shop. She also ventures into love, fully aware of the potential heartache that could result.
Facing the Unfaceable
The film “It Ends with Us” boldly embraces its emotional intensity. The feelings it evokes are raw, honest, and unapologetic, making it difficult to look past it. Attempting or desiring, to look away almost feels like it is shameful. To do so seems like a measure employed to avoid the medicine one must take before the cure.
Fundamentally, “It Ends With Us” is a mirror experience, reflecting things that many trauma survivors try to avoid.
The Power in Pain
Truly, the film’s power punch of emotion and honesty makes it an engaging watch. An ET rating for extreme trauma would probably be the most appropriate for this film.
For viewers who have yet to see “It Ends With Us,” a word of warning. This watch could be triggering or oddly therapeutic depending on the stage in one’s own healing journey. This is especially for anyone who has survived any kind of relationship trauma.
Abuse takes many forms and is always ugly. It is important to remember, however, that it may not be intentional. This is also what makes it difficult to process. It is challenging to fully comprehend the reactivity that stems from chaos and inherited pain, never given a proper outlet.
It Ends With Us: Hidden Roots

Abuse can sneak up on you. It comes off as harmless, an act that is forgivable until it isn’t. This is because of its insidious nature. Abusive nature is like rotten roots packaged in ornate and attractive boxes.
You can’t know what’s inside a gift until you accept, embrace, and open it. Then, it’s almost impossible to separate the gleaming exterior from the gnarly roots. This is especially true with faint, fragrant blooms reminding you of glimpses of beauty that once caught your attention. Those fleeting fragrances only mask the truth for a while. Withered roots camouflaged as love and promise ultimately reveal their true nature.
“It Ends with Us” A Beautiful Nightmare

This film brilliantly portrays the contradictions of loving and letting go, pain begetting purpose, and endings that can power beginnings. The juxtapositions, symbolism, dialogue, performance, and haunting soundtrack, serve as perfect complements to the premise and arc,.
In summary, “It Ends with Us” is a stunningly terrifying film, brimming with potent performances from actors who masterfully convey these intense emotions. And not to mention it ends in a way that every survivor desires, peaceably, with the protagonist empowered and hopeful, and finally toxicity cut off, unrooted so that fresh blossoms can grow in its stead.
